October 28, 2006
Holiday Stress
I received an e-mail from a family member reminding us that the holidays are near. It’s time to gather together and share conversation, laughter and love. Yeah…right. I felt the muscles in my neck tighten as I worked my way to the end of the e-mail. Holidays can be stressful, but when you throw in family the holidays are near intolerable. There are tips on how to stumble through the rough spots a little more smoothly such as breathing techniques and learning the word “no”. Check out some tips at http://md.essortment.com/stressholidayt_rkpq.htm
Usually I keep in mind that what I believe is the true nature of Christmas is time spent with loved ones. I do have to keep that primary thought in the forefront of my mind though, or it will be easily lost in the midst of commercialism, Christmas decor, Christmas cards—am I the only one who questions who should get one this year, and who I can drop from my list? That goes for gifts too. Happy Holidays.
catfish12 said,
October 28, 2006 at 8:50 pm
I must say I agree with you 100%! I feel like I am always rushed during the holidays. I cant seem to enjoy them for myself, but I think on how I should make everyone else happy. The tips are something I will read.
kjamrozy said,
October 31, 2006 at 6:59 pm
You are not the only one who feels the way you feel. I am always so stressed out during the holidays I almost dread them every year. It seems I no longer enjoy the season. I really like the tips in the article. They seem so simple and logical. I think that I am going to have to take a few seconds each day to take my deep breathes and recite the remaining nine tips. We do one family celebration during Thanksgiving and the other during Christmas. Even though this does break up the stress and budget, it seems sometimes that I have to live through the holiday season twice. I long for the times when the holiday season was something to look forward to and really enjoy. Maybe it will be this year if we all follow the tips!
cinnamonspider said,
October 31, 2006 at 7:26 pm
This year will be my second Christmas out on my own (not living with parents) and it has gotten surprisingly stressful! When I was a kid, it was never this bad. I’ve learned to cope by starting my shopping in early November (or even October!) to avoid the Christmas crowds, which admittedly make me want to punch somebody. I’ll have to bookmark that site for when the time gets closer!
lvambrandrw said,
October 31, 2006 at 9:22 pm
I think the holidays are amazing. I love spending time with family and friends. My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years and every holiday we find it hard to get together with everyone’s families. Plus with all the rush of the holidays and all the stress that comes with it, we find it hard to make time for each other.
love2fish said,
November 5, 2006 at 5:25 pm
It bugged me that the stores had Christmas merchandise out before Halloween this year. They seem to be all about year end profits, and not about Jesus Christ. My favorite part of the holidays is Christmas Eve candlelight service at our small Methodist church. The chancel choir sings a medly of favorites and we all have candles that we light as a group from one person to the next. It’s a quiet, reflective way to appreciate the birth of our Savior. The stained glass windows reflect in the low light. I am reminded why we celebrate Christmas. My nerves are calmed and I feel centered, ready for hectic Christmas day activities with family.
Hua Hin said,
December 22, 2007 at 3:17 am
If You Can Then You Can
dimon2603 said,
February 28, 2008 at 3:21 am
I agree. Being always organized helps me doing a lot of things and at the same time relaxed.